Under tutelage, under the training of a Female Owner, a Domina, the male begins to understand how wrong-headed, how astray he was prior to being collared. He begins to see how much he was previously motivated by desires for self-satisfaction.
In realizing how little thought he had actually given to the satisfaction of Women, the superior sex, he begins his transformation. His mind is altered and retrained.
Teaching patience to a submissive can be a tough thing, but a Domme must be diligent if She wants him Her Way…and NOT the way he wants to be for himself - claiming it’s for her… A Domme must understand that his ego must be challenged which is why a submissive (male or female) must be willing to challenge him or her-self in such a way.
ilpianobi: John Dugdale ph.